Spiritually Shabby Reflects on our Father ~Mt. Carmel Church of Christ, Athens, AL~
The following was written by Richard Clinard and shared with me by Wilma. I think it is worth sharing. When I was growing up, the one thing that you did not do was embarrass your parents. That is not to say I never did it! I can almost hear my mother now, “Richard Matthew, do not embarrass us!” Mom was high on what other people thought about her youngins! I feel the same way today.
I think in a similar way, our Heavenly Father would have each of us live in such a way that would have others see him in His proper place. Calvin Miller writes, “The great sin against God is to live in such a way that others don’t see us as wealthy in the spiritual sense.” To live a spiritual shabby life is to cause others to see God as a poor father!
The great sin of the prodigal son was in his making his father look bad! If anyone saw him at the hog pen, they would have surely thought that his father didn’t love him at all! They would have never dreamed that hanging on the wall in a big house back home was the portrait of this filthy hog herder! When we walk through life looking just like everyone else in life, everyone else may think we are just like everyone else! But when we walk through life with the confidence that God is our Father, and that He is a Father who cares for his children, and who provides everything, down to the very bread we eat and the clothing that we wear, then others can see how glorious our Father is! But if we walk through this life not caring how we present ourselves; not caring about our attitudes, our actions, or our appearance, others will think we have a poor father!
Jesus said, “Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father which is in heaven!” Remember, HE IS A GOOD, GOOD FATHER!
____________________________________________________________________ Resisting The Blame Game ~ Steve Goodier ~
A mother heard the family cat yowl in pain. She knew where to look – she looked for her son, Mike. “Stop pulling the cat’s tail, Michael!” she chided. “I’m not pulling his tail,” the boy retorted. “I’m just standing on it. He’s doing the pulling.” He, of course, is no different than any of us. Often, our first impulse is to blame someone or something else for problems. It’s the cat’s fault. Or the school’s fault. Or my parents’ fault. I once heard a story of a 40-year-old woman who was jogging in a U. S. state park when she was attacked and killed by a mountain lion. Her family immediately filed suit against the state because of its “failure to manage the mountain lion population” and because it didn’t “react to reports of cougar activity in the area by posting warning signs.” But an interesting thing happened. Her distraught husband felt it was wrong to blame the state or anyone else for his wife’s death, even though he stood to possibly win a small fortune. Against her family’s wishes, he dropped the law suit. “Barbara and I have always taken responsibility for our own actions,” he explained. “Barbara chose to run in the wild and, on a very long shot, she did not come back. This is not the fault of the state, and people should take responsibility for themselves.” I would like to meet that man. He no doubt believes that the Blame Game” is a no-win in the long run. He seems like a person who would rather spend time fixing what’s broken than fixing the blame for it on someone else. This isn’t about law suits – it’s more about whether we are essentially victims of life or whether we are powerful and responsible people. An important step in gaining mastery over your life is to resist the urge to make something or someone else responsible. Like novelist J. K. Rowling (of Harry Potter fame) said to graduating Harvard students, “There is an expiry date on blaming your parents for steering you in the wrong direction; the moment you are old enough to take the wheel, responsibility lies with you.” Certainly background and circumstances have influenced who we are, but who is responsible for the person we become?
An important decision I made was to resist playing the Blame Game. The day I realized that I am in charge of how I will approach problems in my life, that things will turn out better or worse because of me and nobody else, that was the day I knew I would be a happier and healthier person. And that was the day I knew I could truly build a life that matters.
Leave a Reply